No one says anything when people come in ill. I am now at home and sick. These co-workers are not heroes for coming in to work with their germs, but rather are selfish and inconsiderate. I feel I should say something to our office manager. What do you suggest? -- Sick of Sick Co-workers

Dear Annie: I’ve struggled with romance for most of my life. I’m 27 and find myself repeatedly dealing with unrequited crushes. It’s embarrassing because I feel like I shouldn’t be struggling with something so trivial at my age. Crushes seem more fitting for kids, not for an adult woman with a good job and her life seemingly together.

While it’s nice to have the in-person camaraderie, co-workers who are conspicuously ill are coming in and spreading their contagion. My company provides a generous two weeks of “occasional absence,” which may be used for sick days,

I am now at home and sick. These co-workers are not heroes for coming in to work with their germs, but rather are selfish and inconsiderate. I feel I should say something to our office manager. What do you suggest?