And marriage, that symbol of success in one’s search for a soul mate, has become a status symbol—and also, Ansari notes, summoning Esther Perel, a luxury good.

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I guess that means I do believe in soul mates a little. Like, in the self-help way that tells us to realize, “I was my own soul mate all along!” You had a big, life-changing experience with ...